I wanted my husband to learn these tools and to apply them to his life. I wanted him to learn how to manage his emotions. I needed my husband to change, he was the one that had a hard time dealing with his emotions, not me! What Jody taught me was, it was me who needed to really apply these tools. I now have the relationship I have always wanted with my husband. Be bold has changed my marriage, my home organization, my weight loss, my relationship with my teenagers, time management literally every aspect of my life, including my sex life!