It’s common in a marriage for one person to take a one-up position and the other a one-down. This dynamic can easily get reinforced over time and ultimately causes problems in the marriage. Today I’m taking you on a deeper dive of what each looks like so you can identify where you place yourself in your marriage. Then I’m talking you through the main problems created with this type of inequality in your mind. The goal for each of us should be equality in our marriage. If we view ourselves as equal partners then we show up at our best, we drop resentment and entitlement, and we feel more attracted to and appreciative of our spouses. This is what the healthiest, happiest marriages look like. Tune in to learn more.
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Thanks so much for this podcast. Perfect for me right now. Is there any way to get a complete copy of the text of this podcast? I do need to STUDY this forward and backward, every word.
I would like to STUDY this podcast in much detail! Is there anyway I can get the written transcript of the entire podcast? Thank you!!
HI Katie – So sorry I don’t have transcripts at this time.
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Stephanie
This podcast was painful to hear. I went into it *knowing* I am the “one up” but found that there are certain areas where I am absolutely the “one down.” I appreciated the reminder that insecurity is unattractive. This is an area I’ll definitely try to work on. This podcast literally made me shudder at points as the big, red neon-lit GUILTY sign blinked above my head… My gosh do I have work to do!
Thank you so much for your ideas!