I’m so honored to have Zach and Darcy Spafford on the podcast this week to share their story of how they conquered the biggest challenge in their marriage: pornography. This is undoubtedly an incredibly sensitive and emotional topic, so I urge you to take what we discuss that you find useful and leave anything that doesn’t resonate with you.
Zach and Darcy are clients I’ve had the privilege of working with at The Life Coach School, and Zach is now a certified coach who specializes in helping men who want to overcome their use of pornography. This is a challenge many couples face and it’s a difficult subject to openly discuss, and I am so appreciative of them for coming on and sharing their experience today because I know it’s going to be valuable to many people.
Join us on the podcast today to hear about Zach’s struggle with pornography and how both Zach and Darcy worked to overcome this challenge in their marriage. So many people compound this habit with layers of guilt and shame, and I know that hearing from both sides of the experience and how they’ve grown is going to be priceless.
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What You’ll Learn on this Episode:
- Darcy’s experience of discovering Zach’s use of pornography.
- What prompted a change for Zach and how he figured out how to stop this habit.
- How shame drives this habit further and creates a barrier to discovery.
- The shift that Darcy has experienced over the years of working through this.
- Darcy’s advice for being supportive of your partner in changing this habit.
- Zach’s first piece of advice he gives his clients.
- What true connection and intimacy require.
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